I can remember in college talking to my girlfriends and hearing about the only one of them who was confident and comfortable enough to go down on her boyfriend. I remember being appalled. Not only because it was totally not allowed, but also there was a major “ick” factor. What was interesting was that she was also one of the most faithful women in my friend group. She was a Eucharistic Minister, went on retreats, was part of a small faith group, sang in the choir, did *al

You're on your front steps at the end of a date, and your date goes in for a kiss. It's been a wonderful date and you're excited to feel the softness of their lips on yours. You have an idea of what the perfect kiss is. Your lips touch your date's lips and it's just not what you expected. Maybe if would have been okay, if you'd let go of your expectations. But you didn't, and now the wonderful evening is sullied by a lackluster kiss. Advent is a season of anticipation. I